Sueli Montilha, BACP, NCPS
Sueli Montilha is a counsellor with six years' experience who combines practical, evidence-based techniques with a multicultural perspective.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and Abuse
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About Sueli
Sueli Montilha is a counsellor with six years' experience who combines practical, evidence-based techniques with a multicultural perspective. She works from a bio-psychosocial framework and pays attention to gender, sex and relationship diversity when supporting people with sexual wellbeing and relationship concerns.
Sueli has a Masters of Science in Contemporary Psychosexual Therapy, achieved with distinction, plus an Advanced Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling. She also holds a CPCAB Certificate in Counselling Children and a Postgraduate Certificate in Low Intensity Psychological Interventions.
Background and approach
These qualifications inform how she structures sessions and sets goals. Her background includes roles in the charity sector and the NHS, where she supported children, young people and adults. That experience shaped her approach to complex trauma, including sexual trauma, and common mental health problems such as anxiety and depression.
Sueli helps people with relationship and communication difficulties as well as a wide range of sexual concerns. Examples include erectile or ejaculatory difficulties, arousal and desire problems, painful intercourse, and challenges with orgasm. She is also experienced in areas such as grief, parenting strain, adoption and foster care, attachment questions, and immigration-related stress.
She works with people across diverse genders, sexualities and relationship structures and describes intersectionality as central to her practice. Sessions aim to be collaborative, focused on short-term goals when useful and adapted to each person's needs.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 377748 | October 2026 |
| NCPS | NCS15-02067 | July 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Sueli works with
Everything Sueli lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Coping with life changes
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- Adoption and foster care
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Online support
Finding the right method is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and choose approaches together with each person based on their goals, history and day-to-day needs. That collaborative process helps tailor sessions to what works best for the individual.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions suit those with lower bandwidth or who prefer not to be on camera, and live chat or text-based messaging can be used for shorter check-ins or more frequent contact. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel commitments, and let people choose the style that feels most comfortable.
Frequently asked
What concerns does she help with?
Sueli supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, and sexual wellbeing problems. She also works with trauma, grief, parenting strain, career worries and diverse issues such as adoption, attachment and immigration-related stress.
What is her therapeutic style?
Her approach is practical and evidence-informed, using a bio-psychosocial framework. Sessions focus on collaborative goal setting and techniques suited to the issue at hand.
How many years of experience does she have?
She has six years of clinical experience working in the charity sector and the NHS with children, young people and adults.
Which credentials does she hold and where is she based?
She holds BACP and NCPS credentials and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the UK work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted; she works with people located in the United Kingdom.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions priced and how do I start?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to therapist availability.
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