David Spivey, BACP
David Spivey offers calm, practical support for people feeling stuck, overwhelmed or worn out.
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Self Esteem
- +9 more
About David
David Spivey offers calm, practical support for people feeling stuck, overwhelmed or worn out. He frames sessions simply and warmly, helping clients talk through stress, relationship pain, grief and struggles with self‑worth. David uses clear questions and guided reflection so clients can find small, meaningful shifts.
He aims to make the first step feel manageable and humane. David has 16 years of professional experience across several sectors. He has worked in retail, run a construction business for 20 years, and more recently managed services in the voluntary sector supporting homeless young adults and unpaid carers.
Background and approach
He has also volunteered in a hospice supporting bereaved relatives and mentored for the Prince's Trust. Those roles gave him a wide view of common problems people face - depression, anxiety, relationship breakdown, career strain and money worries among them. He treats each situation as individual and helps people discover how their difficulties show up in daily life.
He listens for patterns but focuses on the person in front of him. Practically, sessions combine relational listening with reflective tools. He draws on attachment ideas to look at how relationships shape feelings, and uses mindfulness and imagery to open new perspectives.
Motivational interviewing helps clients identify realistic next steps when motivation feels low. Clients can expect a steady, non-judgemental presence and clear conversation about goals. David blends counselling and coaching so people can both reflect and take action towards a life that feels more purposeful.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 56374 | October 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What David works with
Everything David lists, in their own terms.
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Intimacy-related issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Divorce and separation
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Infidelity
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Self-love
- Workplace issues
Approaches David lists
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and empathy. In this frame the therapist reflects what matters most to the client so people can feel heard, reduce self-criticism and find their own next steps.
Mindfulness Therapy introduces simple practices to help slow down racing thoughts and notice feelings without getting swept up by them. These techniques can help with anxiety, stress and compassion fatigue and are easy to practise between sessions.
Choosing the right approach is part of the work. David treats the choice as collaborative and will check in about what feels useful. He adapts methods to a person’s goals, needs and preferences rather than sticking to one way of working.
Online formats offer practical flexibility. Video calls are good for fuller conversations and visual connection, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins, and live chat or text messaging suit on-the-go reflections or quick updates between sessions. These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work, family and caregiving responsibilities while keeping the focus on steady progress.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems can he help with?
David works with a wide range of concerns such as relationship and intimacy issues, grief, low self-esteem, stress and anxiety, plus career and money worries.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions are conversational and person-focused, combining relational listening with reflective tools like mindfulness and imagery to open new ways of seeing problems.
How long has he been practising?
He has 16 years of professional experience across commercial and voluntary sectors, including hospice volunteering and work with young adults and carers.
Where is he based and what accreditation does he hold?
He practises in the United Kingdom and holds BACP accreditation as listed in his credentials.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.
How are sessions delivered?
Sessions are available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
What does therapy cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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